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Free Your Voice from Speaking Anxiety

12 effortless secret tips for your next talk or presentation


66TH Issue of Newsletter

Free Your Voice from Speaking Anxiety

Reader,

I recently came across a post on LinkedIn with tips in public speaking situations.

Though I didn't fully agree with all of those...

I got enough inspiration to build a list of my own 12 practical tips that you can start practicing today.

Even if you're a total beginner.

1 - Arrive early and walk the room

  • Arrive early at speaking venue and walk the room
  • Gain familiarity of the stage and people you'll speak to
  • Introduce yourself to attendees and there'll be less strangers

Benefit: Makes the stage less hostile and more friendly for you.

2 - The 90-second rule

  • Speaking anxiety spikes at the very start
  • But your emotions only last for up to 90 seconds
  • 90-seconds of belly breathing can give your system a reset

Benefit: Lowers down the initial spike of your speaking nerves.

3 - The rehearsal truth

  • Remember the 90 second rule
  • Practice your openings way more than anything else
  • Because a strong opening gets you through that initial turbulence

Benefit: Ensures you start strong and get off to a great start.

4 - Don't immediately start talking

  • Ground yourself to your neutral posture
  • Gain awareness of your surroundings and pause
  • I'd even take a look from left to right and just smile at them

Benefit: Helps you with gaining strong footing and feel confident.

5 - Start with any of these or mix-and-match

  • Start with the promise - What's in it for them?
  • Start with a YES/NO question - invites participation
  • Start with a relevant personal story that they can relate to

Benefit: Helps you grab attention fast & gives them a reason to listen to you.

6 - Embrace the silence

  • Pause to take a breather
  • Pause to add curiosity and drama
  • Pause to emphasize key points in your talk
  • Pause to gives them time to absorb what you’ve said

Benefit: Makes you confident and powerful presenter/ storyteller.

7 - Rule of 5

  • Make eye contact with audience for up to 3-5 seconds
  • Don't just glance... make eye contact like it's a 1-1 if possible
  • For large audience - do it like you're writing a big "W" with your head

Benefit: Builds connection and trust and makes you appear confident.

8 - Palm facing up

  • Open palms signal openness
  • It signals you're a friend, not a foe
  • But, pointing signals aggressiveness and hostility

Benefit: Builds connection and trust with the audience.

9 - Don't memorize talk word-for-word

  • It's a trap to mind going blank or freezing up
  • Instead memorize the key pillars of your talk and expand
  • Only memorize dialogues, quotes or beginning and ending parts

Benefit: Humanizes your talk and ensures you don't freeze up on stage.

10 - Tell stories to make a point

  • Stories are powerful to drive home a point
  • Tell a relevant personal story to keep them engaged
  • Stay away from boring generalities and abstract statements

Benefit: Makes your talk engaging, memorable and "NOT boring"

11 - Call backs

  • Refer back to something you said earlier
  • It's like an insider joke between you and audience
  • Requires less effort but creates a satisfying arc for the audience

Benefit: Requires least effort but works perfectly even if you think you aren't funny.

12 - Finish Strong

  • Did a great job with talk, but you're not done yet
  • Stay away from boring "thank you for having me" endings
  • Instead, summarize key points and actionable insights to implement

Benefit: Gives them real value and makes you a problem solver.

Now Reader,

Which one of these tips can you start implementing in your next talk or presentation?

Reply to let me know... I read all emails.

-Waqas

P.S.-- Reply "Cheat sheet" in response to this email if you want to receive a compact PDF with these tips that you can keep handy for future use.

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